Self realization...

I have come to the conclusion about myself that I am a people pleaser. I hate to say no, disappoint, or hurt someone even if it causes me discomfort or pain. I don't know if this is a serious flaw or a plus but that's who I am. I don't like conflict, being involved in drama, or telling those I care about no when they request something of me. My impulse to please almost made a situation of goodness possible turn into something ...well, who knows where it could have gone. I am who I am and I don't think I'll ever change at this late in life but I care too much sometimes to say the word NO.